if luke or i win an auction on ebay, and then something happens within the time of when we need to pay/pick up one or both of us send the seller a message, stating what has happened and then we stay in contact with the seller so that they do know that we are not fcuking them around. one instance my pay came through a day or so late in which case obviously i couldn't pay within the stated time but kept in touch via email. or whathave you, and then as soon as i could i got my arse to the bank or the Post Office to pay for the item. and then notify as soon as i got backfrom paying for the item to notify it has then been paid for.

but people who say they will come pick it up and pay for it, or who don't pay when stated that is just wrong.

you are well within your rights as a seller to do or write what is nesscessary ( spelling?) to inform them and or make a formal complaint.