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The taillight/parklamp/ill lamp had a 15 and asks for a 10 amp fuse. It is HOT to the touch.
This has to be fixed, whether it's related to your problems or not.
For reference,turn on the parking lights and measure the voltage from one side of the fuse and the clip that's holding it. Then measure the other side. Just like you did the ground connection.
Now remove the fuse and clean the clips that hold it. An emeryboard for filing your nails works great. Since your g/f insisted, use one of her's. Reinstall the fuse and measure the voltage drop across each side again. It should be less and the fuse should not get hot.
That's one half of the fuse problem, now you have to figure out why it needs a 15A fuse. A wire diagram will help you locate everything on that circuit. Check to make sure you have the right sized tail lights, the tail light grounds are solid, the wires that lead to the back are sound.
In a 1200, the dirty fuse thing usually shows up as a melted fuse block at the headlight fuse. These intermittent electrical problems are very difficult to track down. I once let my car idle in the driveway for an hour while I disconnected and connected everything. Seats, floor mats, glove box, everything came out. The neighbors must've thought I was on crack for sure. I eventually found the MSD tach adapter had shorted out and wiggling the wires would stall the engine.