Wondering if any of you can help with my dilemma?


I would be most grateful for any advice you could give on this matter of deep concern to me, as I am now in two minds about what to do.

For sometime now I've suspected that my girl maybe having an affair. You know the sort of thing. The phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.
Recently she has started going out 'with the girls' a lot and when I ask which girls it's always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them".
I always used keep an eye out for her taxi coming home, but now she always walks up the street, although I can hear a car setting off as if she has just got out of one around the corner.
The other day I picked up her mobile, just to see what time it was, and she went mental, screaming at me that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her. I kind of think deep down I don't really want to know the truth.
But then last night she went out again and I decided that I would check up on her. I hid behind my car which I knew would give me a good view of the whole street so I could see which car she got out of on her return.
It was whilst I crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.
Do you think I should take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Halfords and try to repair it myself? ....

I would check to see what bluetooth security her phone has, download the information and phone logs, then use that knowledge to blackmail your girlfriend into fixing the rust for you.

Blackmail would be difficult..... Fix the rust or I will tell myself prob wouldnt get very far.

haha good one!

make the girl sleep outside and let the datto sleep in your bedroom. this will help reduce the risk of furthur rust.

tough call, maybe tell her to dump her girl friends and start dating a panel beater, at least you wont get screwed on that one when he fixes your rust.

Pour all your energy into maintaining a sustainable relationship with your Datto.

And trade your girl in on a new one .

organise to go out with the boys on the same night she organises to go out with the girls n just "conincidently" go to the same place she does njust stay out of sight n watch her

Comedy gold skey, comedy gold!

champagne comedy... an oldie but gets them every time, and its tranferable to almost anything.

you had me going.