The 2ZR-FE is 97kg but its 88mm stroke and the 3rzfe with 97mm stroke would need balance shafts and heavier counterweight crank at least 8kg heavier if not more.
Also from this link
http://datsun1200.com/modules/nsections/index.php?op=viewarticle&artid=26these are the weights
A12____ - 87 kg _192 lbs
A14____ - 93 kg _205 lbs
L18____ - 118 kg 260 lbs
CA18ET_ - 118 kg 260 lbs
QR25DE_ - 121 kg 267 lbs (not 129kg)
CA18DET - 128 kg 282 lbs
SR20DE -- 139 kg 306 lbs
therefore its obvious the qr20 has a 8-10kg lighter crankshaft from what I read on fresh alloy and sentra forums also removing the balancer shaft mechanism (i think it was 18lbs or 12lbs cant remember)
and jwt lighter clutch kit (12 lbs lighter) brings the engine weight down to around 100kg on the conservative side.
http://forums.nicoclub.com/zerothread?id=385705https://www.raceeng.com/c-364-qr25.aspxAlso there is supposedly a later and lighter inlet manifold made from composite plastic or could go custom manifold and the jwt headers without cat converter saving another 10-15lbs. To go further knife edging the crank 6-8kg and re-balancing the whole assembly is possible thanks to its incredible rod stroke ratio. You are looking at a sub 90kg engine.
If then the thing is too heavy for starter then the next choice is the mr20de the real competitor to Toyotas in this range of engines and still beats the Toyota version you mention with 84mm bores and shorter stroke at 2ltr.
Otherwise if straying away from nissan engines, a turbo suzuki g13bb or nissan cg13de with boost will still weight around 75-80kg complete and make 200hp solidly.