I've got a tricky one. She always says "sure" or "ok" or "if you want to". Somthing positive and supportive, yet short and sufficiently vague as to her true feelings on the matter. Is it a matter of her handing me the rope to hang myself with, or does she really just want me to be happy?

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Maybe its just me, but.. thus far I have always backed down. If I go to her with a totally unreasonable request.. and she just says "go for it" with no fight, no resistance.. somehow all the joy of the hunt and kill is gone. At that point I dont feel like I am getting away with anything at all. I am deflated and suddenly reason overcomes addiction and I end up passing on the once in a lifetime datsun deal.

It's happened twice now - and I can feel the 3rd time coming on very soon on this sedan I am about to decide to pass on. She said "sure"......... AGAIN.

Something is wrong with me.