Seeing as my work didn't have the relays I did what Ddgonzal said and just put in a inline fuse using same size wire gauge and correct fuse rating and now I have MORE NEW issues!! So here goes (See pic for reference)

Ok so the yellow lined fuse gets HOTT! when I put the key in the on position and cools right back off once I turn the key off

The Purple gets hott as soon as I pull out the lights for running lights only and gets cold as soon as I turn it off. It got hott enough it actually started melting the fuse box

Light Blue well it doesn't get hot any more that I can tell I upgraded it to a Blade fuse and well it doesn't feel hott.

Red wire can't remember what it went to but well now it gets hott and cools off once I turn off what ever it went to

All I did was installed a inline fuse didn't touch any other wires and now all these others fuses seem to get hot and hot as in burned the #OOPS# out of my finger touching them. I did notice that the BIG white wire coming off the fuse block got warm now aswell Can anyone tell me why this is happening and what the big white wire is I'm thinking it's a ground from the way it connects to the negative side of the fuses. So if it is a Ground could I just hack it off and run my own to the Chassis or where ever I want? I looked over the wiring diagram Ddgonzal gave me awhile ago and it seems my wires are different or I'm dumb and cant read the diagram.