Matty,
You must be cornering like crazy! I'm running poly bushes, the larger 20mm sway bar, 175pound springs, Koni yellow adjustables, 1 degree negative camber, and the Toyo R888's 225/45- 13. It's also lowered 3.5 inches over factory height. According to the accelerometer my friend was using, it is pulling just under 1G on the skid pad(.96) and the wear is pretty even.